Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Distorted Beauty

This has been a topic that I've thought about for a while now. It seemed like every time I wanted to illustrate how pervasive advertising and media can be in relation to self-image, my words and statistics would just fall flat. If a picture is worth a thousand words....

1] Out Your Inner Hater: Claim your fears and negative perspectves about yourself by completing the sentence, "Right now, I feel like I really hate my____". By owning where you're at instead of hating yourself for hating yourself, and adding guilt onto shame, you can begin to see other, more positive avenues more clearly.

2] Question Your Motives: Ask yourself if this wallowing is making any progress towards your stated goals of confidence, inner strength, peace, and rational self-improvement? Hint: probably not. So why do you continue with it if it's not serving you to get where you want to go? Hmmmmm?

3] Use It...or Lose It!: Apply your natural stubbornness to either take action to change the things you can, or surrender the fight against that which is, and turn your mind towards more positive ways to move towards health, happiness and prosperity. And, as the old saying goes...have the wisdom to know the difference.

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2 comments:

Unknown said...

excellent video caitlin, i'm going to use it at the boys & girls club where i work for our smart girls program (w/teen girls). so jealous you are in santiago and exploring south america. seems like you are soaking up the experience!!!

Caitlin said...

thanks jerrine!! it was actually my boyfriend who posted the video!! hahaha but yeah, it's pretty incredible huh? hope you're well. where are you now?